Lessons in Leadership

and a few personal stories

 Sharing what I have learned, tested, and trained about leadership mindset and skills. My hope here is to inspire and activate the extraordinary leader ​that lies within you.
The Practice of Public Speaking: Why I’m Loving Toastmasters

The Practice of Public Speaking: Why I’m Loving Toastmasters

In all my years of teaching, training, and public speaking, Toastmasters has always been a group that I avoided.  I don’t know if it was because of my history with public speaking and feeling that I couldn’t do it well. Or that I couldn’t just get up and talk...

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Top 7 Traits That Make Extraordinary Leaders

Top 7 Traits That Make Extraordinary Leaders

Great leaders in any business or enterprise possess solid social intelligence, a drive for change and, above all, a vision that allows them to set their sights on the things that truly merit attention. Leadership takes on many differing components, factors, and shifts...

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The Need for Change and Leaders to Make it Happen

The Need for Change and Leaders to Make it Happen

You can’t hide from it. “The only constant in life is change,” said Heraclitus (although death and taxes were added later). In fact, change is moving at an even faster rate in the digital age. When I entered college as a freshman back in the sixties, we were given a...

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Are woman born leaders? Can leadership be taught?

Are woman born leaders? Can leadership be taught?

My mom had tremendous musical talent and performed classical music with her sister on dual pianos. She and her sister spent hours learning and honing the skills and nuances of playing professionally, which occupied most of her time to the exclusion of pursuing other...

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Five Keys to Mastering Delegation

Five Keys to Mastering Delegation

Let’s face it. You can’t do everything. And even (especially) the best leaders don’t go it alone. You need a team so that everyone pitches in and does their part to make things happen. Yet delegating is the one skill that puts fear in the hearts of many leaders, and...

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My Journey to Define What a Leader Truly Is

My Journey to Define What a Leader Truly Is

I came out of the military – just like those before me and since – schooled in command based on the masculine model of leadership designed for warfare. When you’re training for life-and-death, in the trenches, on the battlefield types of situations, there is clearly...

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Changing the World Needs Comfluence™

Changing the World Needs Comfluence™

The difference between male and female leadership styles is a topic that has been studied extensively over the last several years. Yet it hasn’t become a topic of conversation around the kitchen or boardroom table enough, from what I hear about women’s experiences at...

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What’s Merit Got to Do with It?

What’s Merit Got to Do with It?

My career began in the military. One might think I was positioned to be a fearless leader right from the start. I had a strong mother who counseled me about choosing a direction that would wield more power and control and a father who’d served with the Marines. I was...

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Gender Heritage: About Equal Pay

Gender Heritage: About Equal Pay

The U.S. Women’s National (Soccer) Team just won its second straight World Cup (2019) title, which of course is exciting for them and was thrilling to watch. However, as a women’s leadership trainer and advocate, my favorite part is the spotlight that the team,...

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What is a Leader?

What is a Leader?

What does it mean to be a leader? What are the traits of an effective leader? How can these traits help the people around you to focus, succeed, make more money, and – essentially – make a positive, meaningful difference? Great leaders in any business or enterprise...

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YES to Women in Leadership!

YES to Women in Leadership!

Many people believe that you are either born a leader or you’re not. I do not believe this! In my many decades of working with clients, I’ve seen people who have learned the mindset and skills that have brought them out of the shadows and into the greatness they were...

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Traveling with Cats: Listen to the Noise

Traveling with Cats: Listen to the Noise

Siamese cats have been in my life since I was 17. If you know the breed, you know that they yowl and talk a lot - and regularly.  I adopted my own Siamese when I got to Ft Devens, MA. They traveled with me their entire lives – and never stopped talking. One...

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